I developed a love of solo travel early on. Our family of four traveled extensively. I remember the rigmarole when it came time to plan a trip, pack, and get to all the different places with all the suitcases – and, at times, dogs, too! As much as I loved the adventures, I disliked the logistical nightmares and dramatic arguments involved in attempting to please everyone; compromises were a must, and long faces loomed large.
The minute I could travel alone, I did. I developed an even greater passion for travel when I fully controlled my activities. I love traveling solo because I can:
Curate my adventures exactly the way I want them.
I plan my trip to seek novelty, uniqueness, and places I have never visited. I keep an eye out for quirky shops and museums. I’ll hop on a quick tour or float down a river in a kayak if the opportunity presents itself – without having to negotiate with anyone.
Get up at the crack of dawn and enjoy every minute of the day.
I love sunrise; watching it while having my coffee or taking a morning walk is a lovely indulgence. I also like to be at the first place I visit when they open and squeeze as much as is comfortable for me into a day. I beat the crowds this way!
Eat what I want and when I want.
With years of intermittent fasting under my belt, I rarely eat breakfast, opting for a light lunch and an early dinner. This gives me time to explore during the day and end with a beautiful meal and time for a walk to “make digestion,” as my dad used to say.
Keep the hotel room neat and cold as ice.
There isn’t anything better for me than to indulge in sleeping in a very cold room. I snuggle under the covers and sleep like a baby! Neatness is important to me, and keeping the room uncluttered and my luggage tucked away in the closet is a must.
Change plans depending on what emerges and not have to consult with anyone.
Bliss!
I know it may sound quite selfish of me, but this is what makes me happy, and ultimately, that’s what it’s all about, isn’t it?
If you're a senior woman traveling solo, I'd love to hear what excites you about taking lone adventures. Please share with me in the comments.
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